Purchase a clear or rose quartz crystal. Bathe it in sea salt and spring water and wrap it in white cloth until you are ready to perform the spell, which is designed to neutralize all unwanted vibrations and energies. Charge it by holding it and asking the powers of the Goddess to bring you a lover who is correct and good for you. Carry the crystal in a bright pink, red or green satin or lame bag. Or you can cut a piece of colored cloth, place the crystal in it, and tie the corners together with a string the same color.